India, Sept. 13 -- For some couples, making your partner do what you want needs no extra effort; for others, it is the source of many conflicts. Taking to Instagram on September 9, Jeff Guenther, therapist and couples counsellor with over 20 years of experience, addressed the issue and explained if there is any way to make our partners do what we want them to do.

Whether we wish our partner to plan a date or a trip, or simply clean up after themselves, there is a way we can facilitate that, explained Jeff.

The first step, according to the therapist, is to write down what we want our partners to do. "All of it," he stated. No matter whether it feels momentous or trivial, everything gets jotted down on paper or on the notes app on the pho...