India, June 28 -- Finding the right partner isn't always about having a successful career or serious intentions. Sometimes, a lack of clarity about future plans can become the biggest obstacle.

In a June 26 Instagram post, Oendrila Kapoor, matchmaker and dating coach, shared the story of a 34-year-old software engineer based in the US who wanted to settle down with an Indian partner. Despite being clear about wanting to return to India eventually, he found it difficult to build lasting connections and Oendrila explained why. (Also read: 'He's not your boyfriend yet': Relationship coach shares 8 ways to stop overgiving in the early stages of dating )

According to Oendrila, the man had ruled out dating Indian women already living abroad b...