India, Aug. 16 -- Defence means discipline, said Mahalakshmi Subramani, the President of the Defence Wives Welfare Association, while talking about the lives and silent struggles of countless women who stand as the backbone of the Indian Army. Speaking at NewsX's We Women Want Conclave, Subramani pointed out how the civilian better halves of armed personnel serve in a very unique capacity. "When you marry a man in uniform, you also marry the new postings, pin codes", she said. Wife of the new CDS, Gen Raja Subramani, she highlighted her journey that started as an arranged marriage with an Army captain, held together by the understanding that as long she and her husband are holding hands, they can fulfil their calling in spite of all its c...