Three questions to consider before moving in together
India, Sept. 20 -- M
oving in together is a big step for couples, but there are many questions that should be asked beforehand. Jeff Guenther, therapist and couples counsellor with 20+ years of experience, shared three such questions on his Instagram.
Jeff pointed out that while moving in is exciting, it also comes with some sadness of giving up routines, certain habits or personal space. "If you've been a strong, independent me for a while, this transition can stir up unexpected sadness," he stated, asserting the importance of a partner's support through the phase.
Jeff stated, "Setting boundaries around emotional support helps to avoid burnout and keeps compassion fatigue from creeping in."
Moving in comes with subtle "inevitable" power imbalances. "But ignoring them can lead to resentment, which can also be a relationship ender," Jeff said, adding it's important to talk about them ahead of time.HTC...
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