India, Oct. 16 -- When you have been disappointed in love, it can be difficult to believe that things will turn out differently the next time. You may want a relationship where you feel loved, valued and secure, yet find yourself worrying when someone takes longer than usual to reply or seems a little distant. Even when things are going well, a part of you may be waiting for something to go wrong. These feelings can be hard to shake, especially when past experiences have taught you to be careful with your heart. But you do not have to carry those same fears into every new relationship. Sometimes, making space for lasting love starts with understanding how your past has shaped the way you approach it.

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