India, Oct. 27 -- Don't ignore red flags in the dating phase. Address issues early on; they won't magically disappear. Marry someone for who they are, not who you think they could be. A Redditor recently shared some hard-hitting advice from a divorce lawyer that's got everyone talking. The gist? Everything you tolerate during the dating phase will come back to you 10 times harsher in the marriage. Also read | Don't marry before you ask yourself these 18 important questions, according to a relationship coach

In August 2025, a Redditor on the subreddit Divorce, shared: "A divorce lawyer gave me a piece of advice that hit hard and I wanted to share it here." They said, "Everything you tolerate during the dating phase will come back to you 1...