India, April 16 -- The word 'performative' has become the latest buzzword on social media, and everyone seems to share their two cents. If someone does something, it is tragically downplayed and mocked as being solely 'for the optics.'

Internet culture gravitates towards being 'nonchalant' - do not reply too quickly, play it cool; do not show too much excitement or curiosity on your dates, keep it low-key.

Of course, existing in a public sphere, from hanging out with friends, seizing opportunities at work, or scrolling on social media, also comes with being seen and perceived. The fear of being perceived drives the anxiety of being 'cringe.'

But is feeling deeply really so wrong and embarrassing?

Take it from Ariana Grande, Grammy-win...