Srinagar, July 29 -- Life, in any of its forms, never stays still - that is the one constant feature of it. When everything changes, the change is the only permanent thing. Everywhere we turn, we run into opposites, into pairs pulling against each other, and there is no getting away from them. What most of us are really after is some kind of balance, a way to keep moving forward without being thrown off course by things we can't control and here the true challenge begins for all of us. A few people stumble onto that balance and stop letting the uncontrollable things eat at them, disturb them and make their life hard to live. For the rest, life stays heavy - an unwanted weight they keep dragging around, something closer to a burden than a ...