Srinagar, March 10 -- In many homes, adjustment is introduced to a girl as a value, not as a burden. It comes through small pieces of advice, such as how to speak politely, how to respond calmly, how to take care of others, and how to prepare for the future. She is taught to be patient, understanding, and accommodating. Over time, these lessons are repeated so often that adjustment becomes more than a habit; it becomes an expectation tied to her identity. As she grows, her roles change, but the expectation often remains the same. As a child, she is expected to be obedient and composed. As a daughter, she is expected to be responsible and mindful of family honour. As a daughter-in-law, she is expected to adapt quickly and prove herself wor...