United Kingdom, July 9 -- Kenda Wilkinson has insisted she's "not trying to be sexy" as she gets older.

The 41-year-old star, who celebrated her birthday last month, is focusing on "changes that suit" her and her children, rather than trying to live up to her past as a Playboy model.

Taking to her Instagram Story, she wrote: "I'm ok aging. I'm ok not being young Kendra anymore.

"I'm not playboy anymore. I am not trying to be sexy. Dating and men aren't on fourfront of my mind.

"Looking exactly how i want and loving myself exactly how i am is where im at. Finding gratitude and peace everyday is my objective. (sic)"

In other posts, Kendra opened up on the "journey" she has been on to get to where she is in her own mind.

She added "Lov...