India, Dec. 28 -- I set myself an easy pace in decorating the house for Christmas. One day and one thing at a time. The potted tree is well over seven feet tall now, and is gently rolled indoors. The wreath is hung on the doorway, and the star hoisted with jubilation. Then I turned my attention to the matter of presents for family, friends, neighbours. And what about a gift for myself? H'mm.

What about you? What's the gift that you would truly like this festive season? For most people it could be fabulous gifts. Or a merry party. Or a great getaway. Gifting has become ostentatious. The season to be jolly has got to be more than money. Or impressing others.

How about the gift of joy? You don't have to really go around like a smoked up Sa...