Nigeria, Aug. 13 -- Goleman's framework teaches us, is not about shouting first; it is about knowing when to speak, how to speak, and what not to dignify with a response. Healing rarely arrives through loud analysis, especially when an entire timeline is demanding your opinion on the latest provocation.



Yet I broke that resolve after reading Dr. dk.egga's piece with the audacious caption: "I am an INFIDEL." And if we follow Sheikh Yahaya Jingir's framing, who among us is not?



The piece, written by Dr dk.egga who now wears "Infidel" as both armor and joke, is aimed squarely at Sheikh Yahaya Jingir, the Jos-based leader and custodian of the Izala tradition, for calling those outside his creed "kafir."



Dk.egga's argument is disa...