India, April 19 -- Continued from p 01 O n how she celebrates the day now, Hegde says, "We sit together and do a small puja at home. My family still keeps it very traditional. After that, it's just spending time together. We don't make big plans. It's about being at home and enjoying sweets. It's our collective cheat day." She adds with a laugh, "My mom takes the lead on that. I just follow instructions. Over the years, it has become more about pausing and being grateful." Buying gold remains central to the festival. "In most Indian homes, it's a big tradition. Being South Indian, buying gold is almost second nature. I remember my mom would plan it in advance. It was never impulse shopping. It was always about the future generations. That mindset stays with you, and even today, we continue the ritual." She also cherishes heirloom pieces passed down in the family. "I have a couple of pieces from my mom that I'm very attached to. Some are traditional Mangalorean designs, and some have emotional value, like jewellery my dad gifted her on special occasions. Wearing something that already has a story feels different. Like every girl, I love wearing my mom's sarees and jewellery. Festival days are when we finally get to live that childhood dream." Asked about her own bridal choices in the future, she says, "Gold will always be a part of it because it's such a strong tradition. But I would want to keep it personal as well, maybe mix different elements. Not just wear something because you have to."...