India, Jan. 5 -- Rama Duwaji, the artist-wife of a young man who's created history, is making many of us nervous. How dare she not play second fiddle to Zohran Mamdani, the first ever Muslim mayor of New York by passively accepting her role as a public wife! That paradoxical pulpit of visibility without authorship. In a country where not baking cookies can cost a woman politician an election. Where the first ladies are expected to be just that, first ladies, and no more. The tension is so high that even a fictional diplomat is seen struggling with her career as an ambassador and the Vice President's wife, as in The Diplomat. The burden of being a public wife is a unique one. She is seen constantly, spoken about frequently, yet rarely perm...