DAR ES SALAAM, Oct. 1 -- IN many African societies and indeed, many families around the world talking about death or inheritance is treated as taboo. To be exact, parents avoid writing wills, assuming it is either too early or too ominous to discuss such matters. Unfortunately, this silence often becomes the breeding ground for family disputes, broken relationships and legal battles once the inevitable happens.

When it comes to the reality on the ground, it is time we changed this narrative. Parents must be advised, clearly and respectfully: Writing a will is not a sign of inviting death. It is an act of responsibility, foresight and love. A written will communicates a parents wishes regarding their property and ensures that the children...